It was January 26, 2010.

And one of the first times I remember seeing up close the devastation of alienation in real time.

At a band concert.

There she sat.

The alienator with Mary and Liam.

Waves were followed by screams of “Daddy! Daddy!” as soon as we arrived.

Little faces adorning smiles quickly started to make their way to the aisle.

Like a cheetah springing into action, the alienator lept to the end of the row, dove into the last seat and slammed her legs up against the chair back in front of her so hard we could hear the slapping of her shoes from rows away.

Their smiles quickly faded.

Our hearts quickly sank.

“It’s MY TIME!,” she screamed so loudly the entire auditorium stopped.

Little faces were now adorning tears.

As the lights went dim and the concert began.


Picture: October 28, 2012- Liam(10), Kaitie(14), Mary (12)

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  1. Blocking at a Funeral – I have been alienaed from my daughter for over 10 years . I have 3 grandaughters that do not know me due to the brainwashing my ex has caused. He told me when I divorced him you will not see them. Recently, my daughter lost her mother-in-law which was sudden and unexpected. When I went to the wake my ex got up posted 2 people at fhe coffee room door with their legs spread and arms folded un from of them like guards so I could not get to my daughter. The father in law hugged me 3 different times and was so happy to see me. He told me he and the deceased knew what they were doing to me and told me to hang in there. My daughter walked down the aisle at the funeral and turned my grandaughters faces away from me. This is in fact abuse. It was also said I should have not gone to a funetal where I was not wanted. I would like thoughts from everyone on what was done to me at this funeral.

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